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When you keep having the same argument and never get through it.
Two people who love each other can still circle the same argument for years without resolving it. It usually isn’t one big issue. It’s a pattern that keeps repeating because neither person has found where it actually starts.
You can’t do the other person’s work for them. What you can do is find your part of the pattern and move that, which turns out to be more than most people think it is.
If the same argument keeps resurfacing, trace it to its root with The Source Question. If you’re stuck deciding what’s actually yours to fix, start with Own It.
No. It’s mediation-based, not clinical therapy. Some couples use both.
Yes. Private sessions can include both partners, similar to the mediation work Bill has done for more than twenty years.
This isn’t about being similar. It’s about what shows up in the same season, in Bill’s experience. If more than one of these fits right now, that’s normal, not a sign you’re more stuck than usual.
